On the 13th May, 1921 Sam Sanders, his wife and children, left Cape Town on board the Union Castle Steamer “Walmer Castle”, bound for Southampton, London. After a short stay in London, the family moved on to Germany, where they settled in Berlin. His in-laws, the Sachs family living there, had persuaded Sam to invest in a textile business that was virtually insolvent at the time. Sam, in spite of his years of business experience, was unable to save the business and lost a lot of money in the process.
Sam managed to start up again, opening a small tailoring shop, specialising in “English styled” tailored suits. We are not sure how successful this new venture was, nor do we know whether Sam and his family were as financially comfortable in Berlin as compared to their lifestyle back in Oudtshoorn.
In 1934, Sam and Trude received visitors from South Africa, at their home in Berlin. Mr and Mrs Alex Comay of the town of George, in the Cape Province, were on a European holiday and as they knew Sam’s sister, Bella Israelsohn, who was now living in George, they called on Sam Sanders. Sam, in a postcard to his sister Bella, wrote that he met the Comays and was impressed with Alex. Alex Comay was at one time the mayor of George and it was because of his advise, that Isidore Israelsohn decided to open up a shop in the town.
Two years later, in 1936, at the relatively young age of 57, Sam died. The Oudtshoorn Courant reported at length on his death, in its 18th December edition:
Death of Mr Sam Sanders
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Former Mayor of Oudtshoorn
The sad news was received yesterday of the death in Berlin on Sunday last of Mr Sam Sanders, once a highly esteemed and respected citizen of Oudtshoorn.
It was known that Mr Sanders had recently undergone an operation to his eye, but according to a letter received from his daughter, to his sisters in Cape Town. He had made good recovery. It appears that he contracted pneumonia and passed away after a brief illness.
The deceased was one of the younger sons of the late Mr Wulf Sanders and became sole partner of the old established and well-known firm W. Sanders & Sons, whose beautiful buildings at the corner of St John and High Streets was destroyed by a disastrous fire in September 1927.
Mr Sanders, who retired from business during the Great War period, took a great interest in the welfare of the town. He was a member of the Town Council for about five years. He served as Deputy Mayor under Mr S.H. Adley in 1918 and the following year was elected to the Mayorship.
Possessed of great energy, he never spared himself in the interests of the ratepayers, and carried out his duties very ably and conscientiously.
The deceased, accompanied by his wife and family, left Oudtshoorn for England in 1921 and after a short stay in that country, went to reside in Germany.
The Late Mr Sanders, who was 58 years of age, leaves to mourn a widow and one son and one daughter. He has four sisters residing in South Africa. To them the sympathy of the whole community will be extended.
With the rise of Hitler, Trude Sanders and her two children had to leave Germany. They managed to get to London and Trude was devastated to discover that money, supposedly left in a bank account there, for emergencies, was missing! According to her daughter, Rhoda, recalling this event, many years later, it was rumoured that her brother Aubrey had forged his father’s signature and had withdrawn the money! The family in South Africa assisted in bringing Trude and Rhoda back to Cape Town. Aubrey remained in London where he enlisted in the British army.
At the final stages of the war Aubrey became an army officer. He was in Germany at the end of the war, interviewing people to make up work groups to help with the regeneration of Brunswick. The fact that he had a faultless German accent, was seen as very suspicious by his fellow officers!
Trude and her daughter, Rhoda, set up home in Cape Town, living in a one bedroomed flat in Clarens Road, Sea Point. Rhoda, with her language skills, in English, German and probably French, got a job at the post office, checking letters. (There was censorship in South Africa during the war years). It is understood that mother and daughter struggled to make ends meet in those years. Anne Biderman, daughter of Cissie Nurick/Kaplan, remembers Rhoda as a beautiful and charming young lady.
Aubrey, Rhoda’s brother remained in London and married Patricia (Paddy) Wadeson on the 29th June, 1940 in Willesden. Aubrey and Paddy had three children; Josephine, Denis and Gabrielle. Josephine or Josie as she is known, is divorced without children; Denis, died a bachelor on 2002; Gabrielle or Gaby married Jonathan Wicker and has three children: Oliver, Jessica and Katherine. Gaby lives in the English Lakes District.
It is interesting to note that Aubrey, known as Alan, created an entirely separate life, far removed from his South African family and his Jewish roots, although he talked about them and obviously loved them deeply. He told his children many stories about the Sanders family and their world travels. He is remembered by his daughter Gaby, as an immensely talented and clever man: charismatic, charming, witty, musical, funny, intellectual, socially committed and totally individual. This could well have been the description of his grandfather, Wulf Sanders! Amazing how the musical genes in the Sanders family, have been passed down!
Aubrey and his wife had a hard life together and they struggled financially. His sister, Rhoda helped them on numerous occasions, especially when Aubrey was very ill with diabetes and had both legs amputated. Aubrey died on the 25th November, 1972.
After World War Two, Rhoda Sanders married her German born sweetheart, Jack Eisenberg by proxy, thereby enabling her to enter the United States as a “G.I. Bride”, as Jack had served in the US armed forces during the war. The couple settled in New Orleans, where Jack was employed as the manager of a department store. Rhoda, who was missing her beloved mother, Trude, wanted her to come and live with them in New Orleans. It seemed to make sense as Rhoda had no family left living in Cape Town. Two of Trude’s sisters died in concentration camps during the war.
A boat ticket was sent and at the end of 1948, seventy year old Gertrude Sanders left Cape Town for the last time bound for London, where she stayed with her son Aubrey for about six months, waiting for papers to enter the US.
She eventually sailed from Southampton for New York in February, 1949. Trude, who apparently was absolutely miserable and depressed after her daughter Rhoda left Cape Town, was overjoyed at the thought of being reunited with her daughter again. Tragically, this was not to be. Rhoda who was so happy at the thought of seeing her mother again traveled to New York to meet the ship, leaving her husband, Jack behind in New Orleans. She booked into a hotel for two days and on the day of the ship’s arrival, there was a knock on Rhoda’s hotel bedroom door. To her surprise, it was Jack, her husband. Rhoda thought that Jack had specially come to New York to be with her to greet Trude. Sadly, Jack told Rhoda the tragic news that her mother, Trude had passed away on board ship, the day before, on the 1st March 1949, en route to New York!
Rhoda and her husband Jack lived out the rest of their lives in New Orleans. Their home was situated at 6343 Canal Blvd., where over the years they entertained many South African friends and members of the family. Amongst others, Natie Miller of Cape Town visited them and stayed over in their house and in June, 1978, Philip and Fay Jaff of Johannesburg spent a weekend in New Orleans with them. (The Jaff family, trading under the name of “Delswa”, were one of the leading ladies clothing manufacturers in South Africa at that time)
Jack became the general manager of a department store in the city. On his retirement in 1977, he took Rhoda on a holiday trip to South Africa. This was Rhoda’s first return visit since leaving South Africa twenty- nine years earlier. The following year, Jack and Rhoda left New Orleans for Monte Carlo where they rented a little apartment for a month.
On the 22nd August, 1984, Rhoda suffered a fatal heart attack whilst undergoing leg by-pass surgery. Jack died six years later in 1990. The couple had no children and so this particular branch of the Sanders family came to an end.
Source: Derrick Lewis
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